So why am I writing this blog........?

This blog is a way for me to record and reflect upon my day to day life and all the changes that have happened to me over the past 2 years. In a nut-shell I moved from the rich, bustling streets of London to the sleepy suburbs of Washington DC all in the name of love. My biggest reward in this adventure has been the love of my wonderful husband and the birth of our beautiful daughter. However this transition is not and has not been an easy one; it's been filled with tremendous highs and devastating lows- all part of life's rich tapestry and part of my story that I want to share as a mother, wife and of course as an English girl settling into life across the pond.

Friday, July 13, 2012

Crawly Baby

Apologies that I haven't been a reliable blogger these past few weeks- since the big storm (which actually was a land hurricane) the internet connection at the Marina has been unreliable and every evening when I have sat down to share my news the connection has been down.

It's been a very exciting week for Tabitha.......after lots of shuffling and wriggling she has finally begun to crawl!  Doug and I are both very excited and although we are celebrating her reaching this huge milestone I am also a little anxious, life will never be the same again.  All of a sudden the boat seems even smaller and more intense, particularly as Tabitha follows me and is literally head-butting me in the ankle everywhere I go.  She's just adorable and I am so proud of her.  She has also begun to try to pull herself up on things so I'm sure that she will be walking before her first birthday. 

Here's a clip of the little tyke in action: 


Thursday, July 5, 2012

It's hot!


It's no lie that the majority of English people are obsessed with the weather.  We have good reason for this preoccupation as apart from that one sunny day which is declared as being our summer, most days in the UK are grey and gloomy.  As a result of this I've never had much sympathy and always felt a little frustrated by people who moan about the weather being too hot and humid. 'poor you' I would always think to myself...'It must be really terrible having all that glorious sunshine and warmth..'  'Oh, what a shame that your hair is all frizzy..'  But now as I find myself moaning to Mum on Skype about the terrible heat and humidity I can see the same words running through her mind as she sits there politely smiling back at me in her jumper.  

Since last weekend we've had soaring temperatures of around 95-100 degrees (around 38 centigrade).  Tomorrow and Saturday it is expected to go up to 102 (yuk).  The heat and humidity are quite disabling, it is too hot to take Tabitha out for walks or to the pool after 9am or before 7pm so we're spending as much time as we can playing inside the boat with the air conditioning on.  Yesterday we did discover a new fun way of keeping Tabby cool using the cockpit and the water hose.  As you can see Tabitha was loving the water, she really is a water baby!  

House Update....

We're back from our epic cruise across the bay and not once did we set sight on the infamous Chessie (the Chesapeake equivalent to Nessie!)  We arrived back into the Marina on Sunday lunchtime having left St. Michael's early in an attempt to sail before the sun's heat became too intense.

Last week we missed our weekly 'check on the house' fix, so by Tuesday we were both itching to head out towards civilization and check on the progress.  To break up the monotony of the drive and add a little spice to our life, Doug and I have begun to play a game to not look at the house until we are physically on our street (oh yes, we live on the wild side!)  We both cover our eyes (leaving a slit for the person who is driving of course!) or look the other way so that the progress on the house is a surprise until we get there.  You'd be amazed how much willpower this involves and how much nervous anticipation is built up in the short time that we do this before we look.

Imagine our surprise, relief and excitement when we were greeted with this sight......we have walls and a roof!


The builders have done so much work in a period of 9 days, it's quite amazing.


We understand that the next step is for the builders to finish putting in the external windows and doors and then they will begin to work on the inside of the house.  Who knows what we will be greeted with by next week?!

                                                Tabby and I standing on our front porch

Saturday, June 30, 2012

Holiday Cruise; Third Destination- St. Michael's and a BIG storm...

On Friday morning we left Mears Point Marina early to get to our next destination before the day got too hot.  We were bound for St. Michael's where we had already booked a transient slip, securing our slot to have air conditioning- a must when the temperature is forecast for 37/38 centigrade (100 F).  Our first adventure of the day (and there were a few!) was to negotiate a narrow draw bridge that would take us from the Chester River into the Eastern Bay.  We had to call the bridge tender 10 minutes before we arrived to give him time to stop the traffic and raise the bridge.



It took us 3 hours to sail from Kent Island to St. Michael's, the day was hot and still so once again there was no wind to sail.  Below is a picture of the lighthouse as you enter the marina in St. Michael's.


Yesterday was a ridiculously hot day, too hot for an English girl and a baby....yes, I'm sure that everyone reading this back home in the UK is now tutting and thinking 'poor you..' but it really was quite unbearable.  We spent a bit of time walking around the town and had lunch in a restaurant called The Great Pickle but we soon had to surrender to the heat and spent as much time as we could inside, lapping up the air conditioning.  I still seemed to come down with some kind of heat stroke by the evening so an early night (or so we thought) was on the cards. 

At around midnight Doug and I woke to a lightened sky and intense rocking...........from the West came the most monstrous storm that ravished Virginia and Maryland from South of Norfolk way up past Baltimore (that's pretty huge!).  Here's a picture of the banshe herself:

This satellite picture is taken approximately 2 and a half hours after the storm hit us, we're the blue circle just to the left of the centre. Neither Doug or I were expecting this and gales raged at around 55 MPH.  In the words of Doug:

 "The storm hit us around midnight with sudden very high winds, lightning, and then massive amounts of rain. I got on deck in time to double up our docklines and then we waited it out for about an hour. After that it was just rain and more rain for another couple of hours. 


The storm was about 100 miles wide at the widest point and 150 miles from north to south. It was moving East-Northeast, so all of that red in the upper right corner that you see in the attached picture gave us a solid pounding. I estimated the wind to be 50-60 miles per hour, but that was in the dark and after having been woken from a solid sleep. A friend told us that in his neighborhood, which is about 20 miles inland, they recorded 80 miles per hour.

We've heard many places around the DC area are without power. Some of our dock friends are actually moving on to their boat because they've been told it may be 5 days till the power is restored." 



Tabitha coped remarkably well and was not deterred by the situation.  I'm pretty sure that she would have slept through the whole storm had it not been for Doug's searching in the boat for his extra dock lines.  Once the shock of the situation had subsided she quickly slipped back to sleep and was oblivious to all that was going on around her.  I stayed awake until about 1.30am and Doug lasted out until the storm subsided at around 3am.  I must say, I have never experienced or witnessed myself such extreme weather, although there was a moment when I was a bit scared (probably due to the surprise) it was exhilarating and Doug handled the situation with calm and confidence like any true sea captain would.

The storm has blown some of the heat away and today has been slightly cooler, we've had a relaxing time in the pool and plan to leave St. Michael's early to get back to the Marina.  We've worked out that our cruise has been a solid round 75 miles of fun and adventure, shame that it has to come to an end. 

As I'm sitting here writing this entry, I'm struck by how lucky I am to have this backdrop to my life, I can't deny that it's idyllic.  Tabby is fast asleep and the prosecco is slipping down quite nicely thank you- the perfect evening after the perfect storm.


Thursday, June 28, 2012

Holiday Cruise; Second Destination- Kent Island

Tabby had her first full night of sleep last night which is (was) AMAZING!! Both Doug and I feel rested and we're optimistic for a repeat performance tonight........we'll see......

We left Annapolis at around 11.30am following a leisurely morning.  We weren't in any hurry to set sail as we knew that we had a reasonably short journey to our next destination; Kent Island where we planned to spend the night at a marina called Mears Point.  The weather was beautiful and we made good time on our journey which took around 4 hours.  We motored most of the way but did manage to get a bit of sailing in.



We had to pass under the Chesapeake Bay Bridge which spans 4 miles across the bay.  It was exciting passing under such a huge and oppressive structure, we suddenly felt very small.


We arrived into Mears Point Marina at about 3.30pm, straightened Jubilee out and then headed straight to the pool to let Tabitha cool off and have a splash around.  The Marina is pleasant enough but is very close to a busy main road and the facilities seem a little tired.  It makes me realise how lucky we are to have a slip at Herrington Harbour.

                                                         cooling off in the baby pool

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

PS...

PS- I forgot to introduce your to the newest member of our boat family.......


Meet Tomato, TomAto and Bob, our three tomato plants.  We are now officially self sufficient!

Holiday cruise; first destination- Annapolis

It is a rare day when Doug finally manages to switch off his phone, ignore his email and announce that he is going to take a holiday so we've embraced the holiday spirit and have embarked upon a 'no- plan get away cruise'.  Let me elaborate on the 'no-plan' part, basically we have no where in particular to go in no particular timeframe so we have the luxury of seeing what the weather does and in which direction the wind blows us....literally.

So on Tuesday we set sail to Annapolis, 18.5 miles away up the bay.  We battled against a 20 mph hour head wind and 2-3 foot waves, so the crossing was safe but choppy to say the least.  We made the journey in 4 hours, most of which Tabitha spent asleep in my arms.

                                                                           zzzzzzz

Annapolis is the capital city of Maryland and is home to the United States Naval Academy.  It's a town that oozes charm and history  The residential streets are a refreshing, higgledy-piggledy mix of houses that are all shapes, sizes and colours.


There is an air of piratesque fun but also a sense of respect toward the young naval recruits who proudly wander the streets with family and friends.  As we had arrived late into the afternoon we decided to take it easy on Tuesday night with a view to staying the whole day on Wednesday (today) and setting sail for destination 2 on Thursday.


                                               The night time view from Jubilee to Annapolis

It's been a hot one today reaching a high of 88F.  We all woke early and took a morning stroll around the academy.


Once breakfast had been consumed and Tabby had woken from her morning nap we hit the streets of Annapolis for some retail therapy and lunch.  Tabitha was given her first balloon which was a cause of great excitement and amusement.


                                               That balloon looks very familiar Tabitha......!

This evening as Doug and I were relaxing with a G&T in hand we were reprimanded (in a playful way) by a British man for flying our Union Jack flag upside down.  Once in conversation we learned that he and a group of disabled and abled bodied cyclists had just finished a 9 day cycle across America for the charity 'Help the Heroes'.  'BEEP!"- my internal cycle radar immediately sounded as I quizzed them on their adventure.  As we chatted more to the friendly group we were humbled by the feat they had just achieved and would suggest that if anyone wants to give to a worthy charitable cause check out the help for heroes website (www.helpforheroes.or.uk).

We've had a really relaxing first installment of our cruise.  We've checked the weather for the next few days and it would appear that it is only going to get hotter.  It's undecided where we will sail to next, there's talk that we may head back to the marina as it's going to reach 100 on Friday.....who knows......

                                                              Playtime on the boat!